Structured Space
Does Mingming move faster if I give her time pressure? No, she moves more slowly. Does Mingming move faster if I give her time and space? Up to a point... and then she's off doing other things.
How do I hold structured space for a 3-year old?
Maybe it's like meditation. Take note that our focus has drifted, and gently guide it back. Or note that our focus has drifted, and let her gently guide it back. Let's try it and see.